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Post by Libby on Feb 5, 2009 17:58:18 GMT
I'd still have to throw one up it.....soz.  |
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Post by omnipleasant on Feb 5, 2009 18:00:47 GMT
I'm not sure whether I'd shag her or not.
She's pretty fit, but a bit too young looking.
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Post by tarrant on Feb 5, 2009 18:06:12 GMT
Personally, I've been a long term opponent of these procedures.
I understand the problems that so many of these people feel with their bodies.
But I have difficulty in several areas.
However convincing these people look they will always be their original sex.
No male will ever have a first period or regular periods. This might seem a minor point but I suggest it is very major. We might think of it as minor simply because few people, women included, like to think of it at all.
Yet this is a very important part of becoming a woman. A milestone that few women ever forget. That time when they see themselves differently.
Equally no woman will ever have that first surge of testosterone. The rage that must be controlled, the urge to take silly risks, the anger, the erections that come so inconveniently and cause enormous embarrassment.
The first time he climaxes when masturbating..
It must be acknowledged that this child does look good and the personality is very feminine in a teenage sort of way.
Many transsexuals look terrible. Especially when they get their operations later
Few people don't anticipate long term relationships. Yet for these people, there will always be the task of explaining to any prospective partner.
It would be ideal if, faced with a prospective partner who announces that they were born the opposite sex, we could be sensible and open minded. If it is not acceptable to us we can simply say so in much the same way as we might say your religion is not acceptable.
Yet the reality is that many of us, I suspect, would react negatively.
It seems more likely that such an announcement would be made when the transsexual had already decided that you might be a good partner. That would probably be after some levels of intimacy.
How much intimacy could many of us easily live with before we discover that this person was born a different sex?
Again, ideally, it would be nice if it didn't matter.
This child is, admittedly, attractive. We can assume, I suppose that the physical appearance is female.
Kissing and hugging?
Intimate touching?
Full sex?
How many of us, after any of these stages, on discovering the reality, would react calmly?
I like to think that, in that situation, it wouldn't make any difference to me. I like to think that I would continue to judge this person on their personality.
But I wonder how much heart break and other problems will this child and others have to face?
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Post by sweet soul on Feb 5, 2009 18:09:53 GMT
Just seen her on tv. Very pretty and sweet. Good luck to her.
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Post by tarrant on Feb 5, 2009 18:14:52 GMT
Yes, very much so.
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Post by Muz on Feb 6, 2009 15:03:22 GMT
The real question is...
Would you lick her back door?
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Post by tarrant on Feb 6, 2009 18:35:23 GMT
Would you lick anyone's back door? |
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Post by lawrence on Feb 6, 2009 18:53:34 GMT
Trapped in the wrong body I disagree. They can surgically alter a guy and feed him chemicals but what you end up with is a mutilated guy. Not a female. Yes , if you had sex with HIM you'd be a homo. I have known several of these people and they are simply mentally ill. I feel sorry for them and condemn the psychiatrists that support this.
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Post by vania on Feb 6, 2009 19:08:25 GMT
:-D at the misunderstanding between Libby and Mids!
I personally 'wouldn't' (in the Mids sense) but she is very pretty. I guess it is best to get it done early. Out of interest would anybody be happy to date somebody if they knew they had undergone a sex change? I wonder because whilst I have no issue with transexuals I think I would be put off a bloke if I knew he used to be a she.
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Post by silkbreeze on Feb 6, 2009 19:13:21 GMT
they are different - probably even after they operate, so what, how fun it would be just to let those be who they are - as long as they too are up front and honest about it...i doubt those that would truly love such a person would not be aware, at some stage,
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Post by tarrant on Feb 6, 2009 19:54:12 GMT
A female to male transexual will be a little different since the sexual organ will need an artificial pump to work. Also, there will be no male climax.
On the bright side, he won't stop until he's absolutely exhausted and he'll probably know considerably more about which buttons to push and how to push them.
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Post by Marshall on Feb 6, 2009 20:14:54 GMT
As long as his motives were pure (not doing it for publicity etc.) I can't see why anyone should condemn him. However, he should understand that any subsequent physical and mental problems (not foisted upon him by others) are of his own doing.
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Post by Libby on Feb 6, 2009 23:52:12 GMT
Trapped in the wrong body I disagree. They can surgically alter a guy and feed him chemicals but what you end up with is a mutilated guy. Not a female. Yes , if you had sex with HIM you'd be a homo. I have known several of these people and they are simply mentally ill. I feel sorry for them and condemn the psychiatrists that support this. lawrence i don't mean to offend you but i think you are being a little naive. You have a typical male testosterone angled viewpoint by saying that by becoming involved with anyone like Kim would automatically make you a homosexual. Kim looks like a girl, sounds like a girl, and was convinced she was a girl from birth. Surely this is different to a guy waking up one day and thinking "i'll put on a dress" and act like a woman?! Then it would be more like homosexuality. If you didn't know Kim had had a sex change operation, i am sure you would think of her as a girl. There is nothing remotely male about her. This makes me think she genuinely was trapped in a male body, these things can happen. I think we should be tolerant of this fact even though it is not to our own personal taste. |
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Post by lawrence on Feb 7, 2009 2:41:11 GMT
The one I used to know looked like Dick Butkus with tits.
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Post by watchman on Feb 7, 2009 15:08:17 GMT
Is this too young for such a massive decision? [/i][/b] [/quote] Well, here's the dilemma. Although it might be questionable whether someone is emotionally ready to make such a decision, it's true to say that from a physical point of view, the younger the better. Many teenagers are fairly androgynous and there is a much greater chance of successfully making the transition. Kim makes quite a pretty girl IMO. Many transsexuals have the treatment much later in life and by then they tend to look like an obvious "bloke who's had a sex change" rather than a woman. |
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