Message 62 of 138 in Discussion
From: KotatsuMonster Sent: 07/05/2005 13:16 Sounds like mumbo jumbo to me.
I had never heard of Asperger Syndrome until today, but reading the "What is Asperger Syndrome" article I felt like that could be a number of people I know...including myself. Seriously, most of these folks are far more interesting (at least to me) than the people who conform to the so-called norm. Actually, I've also come across people who I thought were very socially adept but it turns out that deep inside that they have their own funny psycho characteristics.
Anyway, rather than viewing it as something negative, I try and view the whole situation as the human race being made up of people of a vast range of characteristics; everyone is different, and therefore everyone can contribute something different. While we are calling it a syndrome, and frankly I think "personality" would be a better choice of words, I suggest you bask in your syndrome and enjoy the gifts it blesses you with.
Besides, people who are socially inept in the so-called norm environments can also flourish in other social environments where the normal folks would be put to shame. By perfecting knowlege of the subjects that interest you now, you may open a door to a world where you feel ultimately more socially adept in the future.
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Message 63 of 138 in Discussion
From: icas2 Sent: 07/05/2005 14:11 exactly KM.
from the feminine view point I would imagine that females generally like a sensitive man and the boys who crowd together and talk footy all the time may be hiding some complexities in their own personality.
I always liked this poem in my youthMax Ehrmann Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
Max Ehrmann, Desiderata, Copyright 1952.
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Message 64 of 138 in Discussion
From: Shimmer Sent: 07/05/2005 14:20 Seahorse,
I remember reading about this condition a couple of years ago...one of the physical characteristics is extremely long limbs/fingers (in relation to the rest of body)
Fairly easy to figure out: normally your arm span exactly equals your height. In Aspergers Syndrome the arm span is significantly longer than height. Fingers can be spidery long & slim (gotta-picka-pocket-or-two)
If the diagnosis is correct consider yourself in good company, there are many famous very clever people throughout history who are believed to have had Aspergers. Einstein & Isaac Newton
So go on Seahorse stop wasting your time on here, go and invent something! 
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Message 65 of 138 in Discussion
From: Shimmer Sent: 07/05/2005 14:24 I watched a documentary about Osama B. Laden a while back and there was some speculation about him also having aspergers
I think they were probably fascinated with O.B.L.'s long limbs and expressively long fingers.
Seahorse come out of that bloody cave NOW 
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Message 66 of 138 in Discussion
From: Shimmer Sent: 07/05/2005 14:27 Love your post KotatsuMonster
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Message 67 of 138 in Discussion
From: noblelady Sent: 07/05/2005 15:04 I'm ADD with a touch os Aspergers
it's just the way I'm wired.
Too bad we don't get a handbook on how to minimize the downsides
and focus on the gifts!
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(1 recommendation so far) Message 68 of 138 in Discussion
From: fеral Sent: 07/05/2005 15:14 I add a touch of parmesan cheese and parma ham to my asparagus
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(1 recommendation so far) Message 69 of 138 in Discussion
From: yord Sent: 07/05/2005 16:36 There comes a time when everyone will find themselves on the highest roof with a high powered rifle and the fools will say.. I wonder what was it was that finaly snaped in his mind , however, in your case the question should realy be I wonder what took him so fecking long
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Message 70 of 138 in Discussion
From: 19Units Sent: 07/05/2005 16:49 Seahorse,You've been coming on these boards now for 4 odd years.
You must be 16 now, are you doing your GCSE's.?
Are you going to stay on at school or get a job?
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Message 71 of 138 in Discussion
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(1 recommendation so far) Message 72 of 138 in Discussion
From: Joe King Sent: 07/05/2005 17:44 We are all "Odd" in some way or another. Nobody is unique. Have fun SH
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1 recommendation Message 73 of 138 in Discussion
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Message 74 of 138 in Discussion
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Message 75 of 138 in Discussion
From: la la Sent: 08/05/2005 10:29 Oh dear, could you be more wrong la la? Resolving issues to simple 'right' and 'wrong' is a common trait of those suffering from Asperger's, and other forms of autism too. Theology, or at least theism is something often drawn to. (Flinches) Ow! As I said, it was nothing more than an non-expert thought. We live and learn. Thank you for the insight.
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Message 76 of 138 in Discussion
From: icas2 Sent: 09/05/2005 08:13 Oh dear, could you be more wrong la la? Resolving issues to simple 'right' and 'wrong' is a common trait of those suffering from Asperger's, and other forms of autism too. Theology, or at least theism is something often drawn to. (Flinches) Ow! As I said, it was nothing more than an non-expert thought. We live and learn. Thank you for the insight.
So anyone with strong views or who is religious has Asperger's syndrome?
I'll make a note of that
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