sweet soul
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 19, 2009 18:13:17 GMT
Its not vile and its better then jumping into bed willy nilly
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lala
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Post by lala on Jan 19, 2009 19:24:21 GMT
Memo to self. Don't date SS, sounds like she doesn't put out in the first week.
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Post by Libby on Jan 19, 2009 22:15:25 GMT
Add me to the list too lala, cos i don't either lol!  |
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VikingHumpingWitch
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 20, 2009 9:45:25 GMT
Its not vile and its better then jumping into bed willy nilly Planning your sex? Sounds vile to me. Much prefer to just get stuck in and see what happens. Still, each to their own. |
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radge
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Post by radge on Jan 20, 2009 9:46:33 GMT
stop it.
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Post by newyorker on Jan 20, 2009 9:54:51 GMT
No sex on the first date?
Correct, if you want him to have any sort of respect for you. If you want him to think of you as a f**k toy and never take you seriously as a relationship prospect, then go ahead knock yourself out.
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Post by mango on Jan 20, 2009 9:57:26 GMT
How can u have good sex with a stranger? Cos thats what they are on a first date. I like to at least get to know what aftershave a man wears :-) No no - how can you have ANY sex (intercourse I'm talking) with a stranger ! Hell's Bells you haven't even had him checked for chicken pox ffs let alone the myriad of other stuff I value my good health too much to get into a frenzied Fffk fumble with some stranger - don't drink and fumble is my advice  & besides while you wait you can have a whole heap of fun  |
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 20, 2009 9:58:22 GMT
That rather assumes you're with a man stuck in a previous decade. I prefer to "date" men who like it when the woman they're with is attracted to them and actually wants to have sex with them. Nothing wrong with women enjoying sex, trust me, it's not a sign of a mental disorder.
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ricklinc
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Post by ricklinc on Jan 20, 2009 9:58:26 GMT
Oh good. We're on the internet and we're typing about sex. We're pervs.
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Post by radge on Jan 20, 2009 9:59:34 GMT
NY nice piccy  What you say above does ring true to a certain extent, but it isn't a guranteed rule by any stretch. I have had many a meaningful relationship with sex on a first date...ok wait...no i havent..no i really havent..ok i'll shut up now. |
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 20, 2009 10:00:52 GMT
All the long term boyfriends I have had were guys I fcuked on the first date. Maybe I'm just better than most women...
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mango
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Post by mango on Jan 20, 2009 10:03:02 GMT
That rather assumes you're with a man stuck in a previous decade. I prefer to "date" men who like it when the woman they're with is attracted to them and actually wants to have sex with them. Nothing wrong with women enjoying sex, trust me, it's not a sign of a mental disorder. "date" ? well behave yourself - you're a married woman  |
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Post by mango on Jan 20, 2009 10:05:12 GMT
All the long term boyfriends I have had were guys I fcuked on the first date. Maybe I'm just better than most women... well I hope you used good protection & I don't mean spf 30 |
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Post by radge on Jan 20, 2009 10:10:44 GMT
so you prefer mangos to bluebirds now? I suppose a shimmering mango does have a certain charm attached to it, more so than a bluebird... i mean they dont shimmer at all!!!how dull. Shimmering mangoes in the sun...mmmmm
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Post by feral on Jan 20, 2009 10:44:25 GMT
Hell's Bells you haven't even had him checked for chicken pox ffs let alone the myriad of other stuff
So youre saying you don't go to bed with anyone till you've got a signed health check from the docs ??
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sweet soul
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 10:49:00 GMT
i didnt mean plan the actuall sex part.
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 10:50:11 GMT
i think its best to have sex with someone you know a bit better then on a first date, tho i guess its different for men,
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Post by newyorker on Jan 20, 2009 10:50:29 GMT
Hell's Bells you haven't even had him checked for chicken pox ffs let alone the myriad of other stuffSo youre saying you don't go to bed with anyone till you've got a signed health check from the docs ?? Note from a doc, lab results, and a credit check.  |
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sweet soul
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 10:52:58 GMT
how can u relax with a stranger, and truley enjoy the moment? like you would with someone you know and care about......i guess everyone id different tho.
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sweet soul
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 10:55:48 GMT
also, there are different kinds of sex, oral sex, loving sex, and lust ?
are you saying you would have oral sex on a first date? cos thats sex too.
or is sex to you just intercourse?
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