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Post by feral on Jan 20, 2009 11:15:55 GMT
Why is everyone so serious about this - Has no one ever laughed during sex ? It can also be fun you know Frequently BC .Sometimes just with joy and sometimes cos something was hilariously funny |
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 11:17:02 GMT
"It can also be fun you know " - beachy
exactly, and on a first date, i dont think it would be as much fun?
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Post by radge on Jan 20, 2009 11:18:46 GMT
1st date i have never had anything put in I disagree, but if it happened Fcuking brilliant!!!! But that goes for both parties. I mean i wouldnt do it to a lady on the 1st shag, and she prob wouldnt do it to me on the 1st shag, so form that point of view things can only get better.  |
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 20, 2009 11:19:39 GMT
I've found that the second time is usually where any awkwardness surfaces. There are expectations there.
Then again, I find the idea of dating slightly stressful, and sex not at all, so maybe I'm just weird.
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Post by feral on Jan 20, 2009 11:20:07 GMT
"It can also be fun you know " - beachy exactly, and on a first date, i dont think it would be as much fun? well obviously, if you're laying there terrified of doing something he doesnt like  |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2009 11:20:11 GMT
First dates should be fun.
If two are attracted to each other then sex can make the date even more fun, I suppose it all depends on how experienced you are, and how confiident and comfortable you are with your body. Or I could be talking shite...lol
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 11:21:02 GMT
"well obviously, if you're laying there terrified of doing something he doesnt like "
lol too funny ; )
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 11:21:46 GMT
i will be grinning all day at that one ; )
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Post by Libby on Jan 20, 2009 11:23:16 GMT
I think you are right there joyce! I would personally prefer to wait a bit though and enjoy the build-up! lol!
Yes sex can be fun, it's even better when the couple can have a laugh and a giggle! It's a pretty funny thing to do when you think about it! lol!
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Post by radge on Jan 20, 2009 11:24:18 GMT
hmmm i see I disagree post didnt come out very well. ahahahaha
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Post by radge on Jan 20, 2009 11:24:46 GMT
ahahahaha disagree = arse but the american way
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 11:27:38 GMT
yes it must be fun deffo!
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Post by Libby on Jan 20, 2009 11:30:01 GMT
Make it fun and you are guaranteed to enjoy!  |
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Post by newyorker on Jan 20, 2009 11:33:16 GMT
I must be getting old, because sex can definitely wait until I know more about the person; This may turn out to be a person I really want, or a freak I can't wait to get away from, I'd like to know long before we do anything involving naked bodies.
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 11:36:06 GMT
i know wot u mean NY
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Post by sweet soul on Jan 20, 2009 11:37:08 GMT
and im older then most of you. i say wait a bit till u know someone a bit more then a first date, and have fun!!!
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 20, 2009 11:39:02 GMT
To be fair, when I get older I expect to have a bit more caution about unveiling my naked body. Then again, hopefully I'll have grown out of caring.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2009 11:39:17 GMT
I like being a lady on the street and a freak in our bed..lol
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Post by Beachcomber on Jan 20, 2009 11:39:25 GMT
im older then most of you. i say wait a bit till u know someone a bit more then a first date, and have fun!!! OK Mum 
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Post by feral on Jan 20, 2009 11:43:22 GMT
I must be getting old, because sex can definitely wait until I know more about the person; This may turn out to be a person I really want, or a freak I can't wait to get away from, I'd like to know long before we do anything involving naked bodies. I'm not disagreeing with that attitude at all -all I disagree with is having a preconcieved idea about it. |
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