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Post by vania on Jan 21, 2009 17:30:14 GMT
I would never be so patronising!
Seriously I don't really find it bizarre when some people have told me that they don' like sex. We all have likes and dislikes, don't see why sex should be any different.
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Post by feral on Jan 21, 2009 17:30:16 GMT
and you are both starting from the same point.
Its awfully presumptious to think you'll both carry on and always stay at the exact same points as one another
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Post by radge on Jan 21, 2009 17:34:11 GMT
I think you have every right to be so patronising. Whats not to like? if they dont like it, its because of a reason, and they should talk about that reason so they can begin enjoying sex. I mean it is the most basic reason why we are on this planet...to reproduce.
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 21, 2009 17:34:54 GMT
I find it really bizarre that people don't like sex. For one thing, it's never the same with two people, you might not like it with Person A but Person B would give you the ride of your life. For another thing it's designed to be universally appealing.
What is irritating is people who say they like sex but it turns out they mean "I like sex but only three times a week".
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Post by vania on Jan 21, 2009 17:36:10 GMT
Why should they have to start enjoying sex?
I'm too liberal to impose on people my own ideas of what it is they should and shouldn't like...
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Post by yord on Jan 21, 2009 17:38:37 GMT
there is also supposed to be people out there with no feeling in the gentital areas
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Post by radge on Jan 21, 2009 17:38:47 GMT
Because they are only making a negative for themselves so you should always try and make any nagative into a positive. Im saying anything about imposing anything but just to make them realise there is something wrong with them  heh heh. Thats a fact. |
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Post by feral on Jan 21, 2009 17:42:00 GMT
I'm halfway between agreeing with what vania says and what VHW says .I also find it rather bizarre when someone says they dont enjoy sex .I tend to believe that they must be doing it wrong or with the wrong person or have certain hangups that stop them enjoying it.But ..if theyre happy not enjoying it ( gawd how coulod they be ? ) then that's there beer.
I fully agree with VHW that there are a number of people who think they enjoy sex far more than they do .
Ohh and I find this whole thing about discussing what you like together totally abhorrent .Way too clinical
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Post by radge on Jan 21, 2009 17:43:25 GMT
how can you be happy not enjoying sex? Thats an impossibility heh heh. |
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Post by vania on Jan 21, 2009 17:43:25 GMT
If someone avoids something they dislike I don't really see it as a negative.
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 21, 2009 17:43:30 GMT
Oh, if someone were to say they don't like sex I wouldn't try to tell them to start liking it. I would have to ask for details though. What the hell is not to like? It's like saying you don't like kittens. How can you not?
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Post by radge on Jan 21, 2009 17:44:26 GMT
I do agree with Vania in principle, but there are certain things that its well in your best interests to sort out and make a positive in your life.
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Post by vania on Jan 21, 2009 17:54:11 GMT
Kittens are horrendous. There is a cat in my close that I am trying to throw hot water over. Eugh!
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Post by mango on Jan 22, 2009 5:01:46 GMT
A SHORT LOVE STORY
A man and a woman who had never met before, but who were both married to other people, found themselves assigned to the same sleeping room on a trans-continental train.
Though initially embarrassed and uneasy over sharing a room, they were both very tired and fell asleep quickly, he in the upper berth and she in the lower.
At 1:00 AM, the man leaned down and gently woke the woman saying,.......... 'Ma'am, I'm sorry to bother you, but would you be willing to reach into the closet to get me a second blanket?
I'm awfully cold.'
'I have a better idea,' she replied 'Just for tonight,...... let's pretend that we're married.'
'Wow!...................... That's a great idea!', he exclaimed.
'Good,' she replied. ............'Get your own f….ing blanket.'
After a moment of silence, .....................he farted.
The End
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Post by Libby on Jan 22, 2009 14:37:56 GMT
25 Pages!!!!  I think people tend to forget as well as being enjoyable, sex should be fun! If people don't like it fine, that's their personal choice. One thing that bugs me though is when newspapers and magazines bleat on about statistics about "How many times a night is normal" How many times a week etc, a month blah blah blah! If it's fine with the couple, to heck with statistics!! |
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 22, 2009 14:40:47 GMT
Kittens are horrendous. There is a cat in my close that I am trying to throw hot water over. Eugh!  If I caught you or anyone else doing that you'd never have to worry about sex again cos I'd take off your bits with a hacksaw. |
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Post by Libby on Jan 22, 2009 14:44:15 GMT
What was so wrong with kittens anyway, am i missing something?! |
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Post by Tissue on Jan 22, 2009 14:46:46 GMT
Kittens are horrible, they grow into cats
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Post by VikingHumpingWitch on Jan 22, 2009 14:59:11 GMT
Not liking cats is a sign of sexual dysfunction. Everyone knows this.
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Post by radge on Jan 22, 2009 15:03:33 GMT
dogs are way better. so are snakes |
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